عن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم :
"إن الله تعالى يرضى لكم ثلاثا، ويكره لكم ثلاثًا: فيرضى لكم أن تعبدوه، ولا تشركوا به شيئًا، وأن تعتصموا بحبل الله جميعًا ولا تفرقوا، ويكره لكم: قيل وقال، وكثرة السؤال، وإضاعة المال" ((رواه مسلم، وتقدم شرحه)).
Narrated Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) said:
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Verily, Allah likes three things for you and disapproves three things for you. He likes that you should worship Him Alone, not to associate anything with Him (in worship) and to hold fast to the Rope of Allah and not to be divided among yourselves; and He disapproves for you irrelevant talk, persistent questioning and the squandering of the wealth.".
وعن عقبة بن عامر أن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال:
"المؤمن أخو المؤمن، فلا يحل لمؤمن أن يبتاع على بيع أخيه ولا يخطب على خطبة أخيه حتى يذر" ((رواه مسلم)).
Narrated 'Uqbah bin 'Amir (May Allah be pleased with him) said:
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "A Mu'min is the brother of another Mu'min; and thus it is not permissible for a Mu'min to make an offer while the offer of his brother is pending, nor should he make a proposal of marriage while that of his brother is pending till he withdraws his proposal.".
وعن وراد كاتب المغيرة شعبة قال: أملى على المغيرة بن شعبة في كتاب إلى معاوية رضي الله عنه ، أن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم أن يقول في دبر كل صلاة مكتوبة: "لا إله إلا الله وحده لا شريك له، له الملك وله الحمد وهو على كل شيء قدير، اللهم لا مانع لما أعطيت، ولا معطي لما منعت، ولا ينفع ذا الجد منك الجد" وكتب إليه أنه "كان ينهى عن قيل وقال، وإضاعة المال، وكثرة السؤال، وكان ينهى عن عقوق الأمهات، ووأد البنات، ومنع وهات” ((متفق عليه وسبق شرحه)).
Narrated Warrad, the scribe of Al-Mughirah bin Shu'bah (May Allah be pleased with him) said:
Al-Mughirah bin Shu'bah dictated a letter to me addressed to Mu'awiyah (May Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (ﷺ) used to supplicate at the end of each obligatory Salat (prescribed prayer): "La ilaha illallahu, wahadahu la sharika lahu, lahul-mulku, wa lahul-hamdu, wa Huwa 'ala kulli shai'in Qadir. Allahumma la mani'a lima a'taita, wa la mu'tiya lima mana'ta, wa la yanfa'u dhal-jaddi mink-al-jaddu. (There is no true god except Allah, the One, Who has no partner. His is the sovereignty and His is the praise, and He is Able to do everything. O Allah! Nobody can withhold what You give; and nobody can give what You withhold; and the high status of a person is of no avail against Your Will)." He also wrote to him that the Prophet (ﷺ) used to forbid irrelevant talk, wasteful expenditure, persistent questioning, disobedience of parents (especially mothers), infanticide of daughters by burying them alive, depriving others of their rights and acquisition of property wrongfully..
وعن ابن عمر رضي الله عنهما، أن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال:
"لا يبع بعضكم على بيع بعض، ولا يخطب على خطبة أخيه إلا أن يأذن له" ((متفق عليه، وهذا لفظ مسلم))
Narrated Ibn 'Umar (May Allah be pleased with them) said:
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "A person should not enter into a transaction when his (Muslim) brother has already negotiated, nor should he make a proposal of marriage when that of his brother is pending, except with the permission of the latter."
