Ibn 'Umar reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant
him peace, "All of you are shepherds and each of you is responsible for
his flock. A man is the shepherd of the people of his house and he is responsible.
A woman is the shepherd of the house of her husband and she is responsible.
Each of you is a shepherd and each is responsible for his flock."
حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو الْيَمَانِ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا شُعَيْبُ بْنُ أَبِي حَمْزَةَ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا سَالِمٌ، عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ، أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ رَسُولَ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَقُولُ: كُلُّكُمْ رَاعٍ، وَكُلُّكُمْ مَسْؤُولٌ عَنْ رَعِيَّتِهِ، الإِمَامُ رَاعٍ وَهُوَ مَسْؤُولٌ عَنْ رَعِيَّتِهِ، وَالرَّجُلُ رَاعٍ فِي أَهْلِهِ، وَالْمَرْأَةُ رَاعِيَةٌ فِي بَيْتِ زَوْجِهَا، وَالْخَادِمُ فِي مَالِ سَيِّدِهِ، سَمِعْتُ هَؤُلاَءِ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم، وَأَحْسَبُ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ: وَالرَّجُلُ فِي مَالِ أَبِيهِ.
Ibn 'Umar reported that he heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah
bless him and grant him peace, say, "All of you are shepherds and each
of you is responsible for his flock. A woman is the shepherd of the house
of her husband and she is responsible as is the servant in regard to his
master's property."
Jabir ibn 'Abdullah al-Ansari reported that the Prophet, may Allah
bless him and grant him peace, said, "Whoever has a favour done for him
should repay it. If he cannot find anything he can use to repay it, he
should praise the one who did it. When he praises him, he thanks him. If
he is silent, he is ungrateful to him. If someone adorns himself with something
he has not been given, it is as if he was wearing a false garment."