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3 November 2026 23 Jumada al-Ula 1448 AH

Bulugh al-Maram 1134

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Hadith 1134
وَعَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-{ لَا يَخْطُبْ بَعْضُكُمْ عَلَى خِطْبَةِ أَخِيهِ , حَتَّى يَتْرُكَ اَلْخَاطِبُ قَبْلَهُ , أَوْ يَأْذَنَ لَهُ اَلْخَاطِبُ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ , وَاللَّفْظُ لِلْبُخَارِيِّ 1‏ .‏‏1 ‏- صحيح .‏ رواه البخاري ( 5142 )‏ ، ومسلم ( 1412 )‏.‏

Narrated Narrated Ibn 'Umar (RA):

Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "No one of you should ask a woman in marriage when his brother has done so already, until the one who has proposed (to her) before him gives her up, or gives him permission."
Bulugh al-Maram 1134

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Hadith 1133
وَلِمُسْلِمٍ : عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ‏- رضى الله عنه ‏- { أَنَّ اَلنَّبِيَّ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-قَالَ لِرَجُلٍ تَزَوَّجَ اِمْرَأَةً : أَنَظَرْتَ إِلَيْهَا ?
" قَالَ : لَا .‏ قَالَ : " اِذْهَبْ فَانْظُرْ إِلَيْهَا } 1‏ .‏‏1 ‏- صحيح .‏ رواه مسلم (1424 )‏ ، وزاد : " فإن في أعين الأنصار شيئا" .‏ وانظر الرسالة المشار إليها آنفا.‏

Narrated Muslim reported from Abu Hurairah (RA):

The Prophet (ﷺ) asked a man who had intended to marry a woman, "Have you looked at her" He replied, "No." He said, "Go and look at her."
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Hadith 1135
وَعَنْ سَهْلِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ اَلسَّاعِدِيِّ ‏- رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا‏- قَالَ : { جَاءَتِ امْرَأَةٌ إِلَى رَسُولِ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-فَقَالَتْ : يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ! جِئْتُ أَهَبُ لَكَ نَفْسِي , فَنَظَرَ إِلَيْهَا رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-فَصَعَّدَ اَلنَّظَرَ فِيهَا , وَصَوَّبَهُ , ثُمَّ طَأْطَأَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-رَأْسَهُ , فَلَمَّا رَأَتْ اَلْمَرْأَةُ أَنَّهُ لَمْ يَقْضِ فِيهَا شَيْئًا 1‏ جَلَسَتْ , فَقَامَ رَجُلٌ مِنْ أَصْحَابِهِ .‏
فَقَالَ : يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ ! إِنْ لَمْ يَكُنْ لَكَ بِهَا حَاجَةٌ فَزَوِّجْنِيهَا .‏
قَالَ : " فَهَلْ عِنْدكَ مِنْ شَيْءٍ ? " .‏
فَقَالَ : لَا , وَاَللَّهِ يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ .‏
فَقَالَ : " اِذْهَبْ إِلَى أَهْلِكَ , فَانْظُرْ هَلْ تَجِدُ شَيْئًا ? " فَذَهَبَ , ثُمَّ رَجَعَ ?
فَقَالَ : لَا , وَاَللَّهِ يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ، مَا وَجَدْتُ شَيْئًا.‏
فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-" انْظُرْ وَلَوْ خَاتَمًا مِنْ حَدِيدٍ "، فَذَهَبَ، ثُمَّ رَجَعَ.‏
فَقَالَ : لَا وَاَللَّهِ , يَا رَسُولَ اَللَّهِ , وَلَا خَاتَمًا مِنْ حَدِيدٍ , وَلَكِنْ هَذَا إِزَارِي ‏- قَالَ سَهْلٌ : مَالُهُ رِدَاءٌ ‏- فَلَهَا نِصْفُهُ .‏
فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-" مَا تَصْنَعُ بِإِزَارِكَ ? إِنْ لَبِسْتَهُ لَمْ يَكُنْ عَلَيْهَا مِنْهُ شَيْءٌ، وَإِنْ لَبِسَتْهُ لَمْ يَكُنْ عَلَيْكَ شَيْءٌ " فَجَلَسَ اَلرَّجُلُ , وَحَتَّى إِذَا طَالَ مَجْلِسُهُ قَامَ ; فَرَآهُ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-مُوَلِّيًا , فَأَمَرَ بِهِ , فَدُعِيَ لَهُ , فَلَمَّا جَاءَ .‏
قَالَ : " مَاذَا مَعَكَ مِنَ الْقُرْآنِ ? " .‏
قَالَ : مَعِي سُورَةُ كَذَا , وَسُورَةُ كَذَا , عَدَّدَهَا .‏
فَقَالَ : " تَقْرَؤُهُنَّ عَنْ ظَهْرِ قَلْبِكَ ? " .‏
قَالَ : نَعَمْ , قَالَ : "اِذْهَبْ , فَقَدَ مَلَّكْتُكَهَا بِمَا مَعَكَ مِنَ الْقُرْآنِ } مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ , وَاللَّفْظُ لِمُسْلِمٍ 2‏ .‏
وَفِي رِوَايَةٍ لَهُ : { اِنْطَلِقْ , فَقَدْ زَوَّجْتُكَهَا , فَعَلِّمْهَا مِنَ الْقُرْآنِ } 3‏ .‏
وَفِي رِوَايَةٍ لِلْبُخَارِيِّ : { أَمْكَنَّاكَهَا 4‏ بِمَا مَعَكَ مِنَ الْقُرْآنِ } 5‏ .‏‏1 ‏- ووقع في " أ " : " بشيء ".‏
‏2 ‏- صحيح .‏ رواه البخاري ( 5030 )‏ و ( 5087 )‏ ، ومسلم ( 1425 )‏ ( 76 )‏ , واللفظ متفق عليه ، وليس كما فرق الحافظ رحمه الله.‏
‏3 ‏- مسلم ( 1425 )‏ ( 77 )‏.‏
‏4 ‏- كذا في " الأصلين " وفي المطبوع من " البلوغ " وشرحه .‏ وانظر التعليق التالي.
‏‏5 ‏- البخاري برواية أبي ذر ، كما في " اليونينية " ( 7 / 17 )‏ وأما باقي روايات البخاري فهي بلفظ : "أملكناكها".‏

Narrated Narrated Sahl bin Sa'd as-Sa'idi (RA):

A woman came to Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) and said, "O Allah's Messenger, I came to offer myself to you (in marriage)." Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) looked her up and down (carefully), and then Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) lowed his head. When the woman saw that he had not made any decision regarding her she sat down. A man of his companions then stood up and said, "O Allah's Messenger, if you have no need for her, marry her to me." He asked, "Do you have anything (to give her as dowry)?" He replied, "No, I swear by Allah, O Allah's Messenger." He thereupon said, "Go to your family and see if you can find something." He went and then returned and said, "No, I swear by Allah I found nothing." Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) then said, "Look for something, even if it should be an iron ring." He went and then returned and said, "No, I swear by Allah, O Allah's Messenger, not even an iron ring; but I have onl this lower garment of mine - - and I shall give her half of it." Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) then said, "What will she do with your lower garment? For if you wear it, there would be nothing of it on her, and if she wears it, there would be nothing of it on you." The man then sat down and when he had sit for a long time he stood up and Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) saw him departing, so he commanded him and he was called back. When he came back, he said, "What do you have (i.e. memorized) from the Qur'an?" He replied, "I have Surat such and such and Surat such and such," he counted them. He then asked "Can you recited them by heart?" He replied, "Yes." He said, "Go, for I have given her to you in marriage for the part of the Qur'an which you know."

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Another narration has: "Go for I have given her to you in marriage, so teach her some of Qur'an."

A narration by al-Bukhari has: "I have married her to you for the part of the Qur'an which you know."
Bulugh al-Maram 1135 Open
Hadith 1132
وَعِنْدَ اِبْنِ مَاجَهْ , وَابْنِ حِبَّانَ : مِنْ حَدِيثِ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ مَسْلَمَةَ 1‏ .‏‏1 ‏- ولفظه : عن ابن أبي حثمة قال : رأيت محمد بن مسلمة يطارد امرأة ببصره على إجار يقال لها : ثبيتة بنت الضحاك ، فقلت : أتفعل هذا ، وأنت صاحب رسول الله ‏-صلى الله عليه وسلم‏- ؟ فقال : نعم .‏ قال رسول الله ‏-صلى الله عليه وسلم‏- : " إذا ألقى الله في قلب رجل خطبة امرأة ، فلا بأس أن ينظر إليها " .‏ وانظر " الأحكام المطلوبة ".‏
It also has a Shahid (supporting narration) reported by Ibn Majah and Ibn Hibban from the Hadith of Muhammad bin Maslamah.