Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant
him peace, said, "May his nose be dusted (i.e. may he be disgraced), may his nose be dusted, may his nose be dusted." They said, "Messenger of Allah, who?" He said, "The one who lives to see his parents or one of them in old age, and (still) enters the Fire."
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas mentioned the words of the Almighty, "When one or both
of them reach old age with you, do not say 'Ugh!' to them out of irritation
and do not be harsh with them but speak to them with gentleness and generosity.
Take them under your wing, out of mercy, with due humility and say:
'Lord,
show mercy to them as they did in looking after me when I was small."
(17:23-24) He said, "This was abrogated in Surat at-Tawba: 'It
is not right for the Prophet and those who have iman to ask forgiveness for
the mushrikun even if they are close relatives after it has become clear
to them that they are the Companions of the Blazing Fire.' (9:113)"
'Abdullah ibn 'Amr said, "A man came to the Prophet, may Allah bless
him and grant him peace, wanting to do jihad. The Prophet asked, 'Are your
parents alive?' 'Yes,' he replied. he said, 'Then exert yourself on their
behalf.'"
