حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو عَاصِمٍ، عَنْ نَهَّاسِ بْنِ قَهْمٍ، عَنْ شَدَّادٍ أَبِي عَمَّارٍ، عَنْ عَوْفِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ: أَنَا وَامْرَأَةٌ سَفْعَاءُ الْخَدَّيْنِ، امْرَأَةٌ آمَتْ مِنْ زَوْجِهَا فَصَبَرْتَ عَلَى وَلَدِهَا، كَهَاتَيْنِ فِي الْجَنَّةِ.
'Awf ibn Malik reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant
him peace, said, "I and a woman who is widowed and is patient with her child
will be like these two fingers in the Garden."
Asma' bint 'Ubayd said, "I said to Ibn Sirin, 'I have an orphan in my
care.' He said, 'Treat him as you would treat your own child. Beat him as
you would beat your own child.'"
Shumaysa al-'Atakiyya said, "The disciplining of orphans was mentioned
in the presence of 'A'isha and she said, 'I would beat an orphan until he
submits.'"
Al-Hasan said, "I remember a time among the Muslims when their men would
shout (to remind their families), 'O family! O family! (Look after) your
orphan! Your orphan! O family! O family! (Look after) your orphan! Your poor
person! Your poor person! O family! O family! (Look after) your neighbour!
Your neighbour!' Time has been swift in taking the best of you while every
day you become baser."
