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3 October 2026 22 Rabi' al-Thani 1448 AH

Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1050

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Hadith 1050
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يُوسُفَ، قَالَ‏:‏ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْحَمِيدِ بْنُ بَهْرَامَ، عَنْ شَهْرٍ قَالَ‏:‏ سَمِعْتُ أَسْمَاءَ، أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم مَرَّ فِي الْمَسْجِدِ، وَعُصْبَةٌ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ قُعُودٌ، قَالَ بِيَدِهِ إِلَيْهِنَّ بِالسَّلاَمِ، فَقَالَ‏:‏ إِيَّاكُنَّ وَكُفْرَانَ الْمُنْعِمِينَ، إِيَّاكُنَّ وَكُفْرَانَ الْمُنْعِمِينَ، قَالَتْ إِحْدَاهُنَّ‏:‏ نَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ، يَا نَبِيَّ اللهِ، مِنْ كُفْرَانِ نِعَمِ اللهِ، قَالَ‏:‏ بَلَى إِنَّ إِحْدَاكُنَّ تَطُولُ أَيْمَتُهَا، ثُمَّ تَغْضَبُ الْغَضْبَةَ فَتَقُولُ‏:‏ وَاللَّهِ مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْهُ سَاعَةً خَيْرًا قَطُّ، فَذَلِكَ كُفْرَانُ نِعَمِ اللهِ، وَذَلِكَ كُفْرَانُ نِعَمِ الْمُنْعِمِينَ‏.‏
Asma' was heard to say that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and
grant him peace, passed by a group of women sitting down in the mosque.
He said to the salam with his hand and said, "Beware of the ingratitude
of those with blessings. Beware of the ingratitude of those with blessings."
One of them said, "We seek refuge with Prophet, Prophet of Allah, from
ingratitude for the blessings of Allah." He said, "Yes. One of you women
might have been without a husband for a long time (and then Allah provides
her with one) and she becomes angry and says, 'By Allah, I have never seen
a hour of good from you. That is ingratitude for the blessings of Allah.
That is the ingratitude of those with blessings.'"
Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1050

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Hadith 1049
حَدَّثَنَا مُوسَى، قَالَ‏:‏ حَدَّثَنَا مُبَارَكٌ قَالَ‏:‏ سَمِعْتُ الْحَسَنَ يَقُولُ‏:‏ كُنَّ النِّسَاءُ يُسَلِّمْنَ عَلَى الرِّجَالِ‏.‏
Al-Hasan said, "Be women who greet men."
Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1049 Open
Hadith 1051
حَدَّثَنَا مَخْلَدٌ، قَالَ‏:‏ حَدَّثَنَا مُبَشِّرُ بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ، عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي غَنِيَّةَ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ مُهَاجِرٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ أَسْمَاءَ ابْنَةِ يَزِيدَ الأَنْصَارِيَّةِ، مَرَّ بِيَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم وَأَنَا فِي جِوَارِ أَتْرَابٍ لِي، فَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْنَا وَقَالَ‏:‏ إِيَّاكُنَّ وَكُفْرَ الْمُنْعِمِينَ، وَكُنْتُ مِنْ أَجْرَئِهِنَّ عَلَى مَسْأَلَتِهِ، فَقُلْتُ‏:‏ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، وَمَا كُفْرُ الْمُنْعِمِينَ‏؟‏ قَالَ‏:‏ لَعَلَّ إِحْدَاكُنَّ تَطُولُ أَيْمَتُهَا مِنْ أَبَوَيْهَا، ثُمَّ يَرْزُقُهَا اللَّهُ زَوْجًا، وَيَرْزُقُهَا مِنْهُ وَلَدًا، فَتَغْضَبُ الْغَضْبَةَ فَتَكْفُرُ فَتَقُولُ‏:‏ مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْكَ خَيْرًا قَطُّ‏.‏
Asma', the daughter of Yazid al-Ansari, said, "The Prophet, may
Allah bless him and grant him peace, passed by me while I was with some
young slavegirls belonging to me. He greeted us and said, 'Beware of the
ingratitude of those with blessings.' I was the boldest of them in coming
forward to question him and I said, 'Messenger of Allah, what is the ingratitude
of those with blessings?' He replied, 'Perhaps one of them with remain
unmarried for a long time with her parents and then Allah provides her
with a husband and provides her with children from him and then she gets
angry and is ungrateful and says, "I have never seen any good at all from
you."'"
Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1051 Open
Hadith 1048
حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ يُوسُفَ، قَالَ‏:‏ أَخْبَرَنَا مَالِكٌ، عَنْ أَبِي النَّضْرِ، أَنَّ أَبَا مُرَّةَ مَوْلَى أُمِّ هَانِئِ ابْنَةِ أَبِي طَالِبٍ أَخْبَرَهُ، أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ أُمَّ هَانِئٍ تَقُولُ‏:‏ ذَهَبْتُ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم وَهُوَ يَغْتَسِلُ، فَسَلَّمْتُ عَلَيْهِ، فَقَالَ‏:‏ مَنْ هَذِهِ‏؟‏ قُلْتُ‏:‏ أُمُّ هَانِئٍ، قَالَ‏:‏ مَرْحَبًا‏.‏
Umm Hani', the daughter of Abu Talib, said, "I went to the Prophet,
may Allah bless him and grant him peace, while he was performing a major
ablution. I greeted him and he asked, 'Who is this?' 'Umm Hani',' I replied.
He said, 'Welcome.'"